Every toy we sell is perfect for someone. It is important to understand
the features of each toy and match a person with the right one for them.
This Sex Toys 101 Guide is a good starting point to help understand
some of the basics of toys. Further your knowledge by reading some of
the books we offer on toys.

WHAT DOES “HIGH QUALITY” MEAN?

The higher quality toys we carry offer:

Better performing motors
Quieter motors
More features
Body-safe materials
The lowest defective rates
Often carry a warranty

myths and misconceptions
Q. Can people become addicted
to vibration?
A.  The concern here is that if people try
vibration, they might never be satisfied
with sex or other stimulation with their
partner. The best way to explain this
is that we teach our bodies to respond
sexually to certain types of stimulation.
If you do only one thing over and over,
your body will learn to respond to
that. Varying the types of stimulation
(penetration, oral sex, manual
stimulation, other toys, etc.) will prevent
any type of “addiction.” The good news
is a body can always be re-trained to
respond sexually to something else.
Q.  Can toys replace a partner?
A.  They’re not replacements, they’re
accessories! Toys are inanimate objects
that people cannot create intimacy or
relationships with. In fact, they can help
create intimacy between couples when
they are used during lovemaking.
Q.   A customer tried it once and didn’t
like it?
A.   We recommend users try everything
three times before deciding. Hormonal
changes throughout the month can affect
a woman’s sensitivity. Also, be careful
of personal recommendations since what
is great for one person, may be very
different for another person. It is best to
keep experimenting with other styles!

WHAT MAKES A GOOD
FIRST-TIME VIBRATOR?
Medium size (5”–7” in length)
Smooth texture
Full range of vibration (from very low to very high)
ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS
Q.   Does she climax more easily from clitoral
stimulation or penetration?
CLITORAL
The answer will most likely be “clitoral stimulation” because
around 75% of women only ever orgasm from clitoral
stimulation.
Any toy that can be used externally on or near the clitoris is the
right choice. Choose something with a full range of vibration so
she can choose the level of intensity that works best for her.
PENETRATION
Around 25% of women are able to orgasm from penetration,
due to the clitoris being stimulated indirectly during penetration
in certain positions.
Choose a toy with average girth and little or no texture for
penetration initially. Because orgasm through clitoral stimulation
is so popular, it is good to get a toy that is good for BOTH
penetration and clitoral stimulation.
Q.   Does she have trouble having an orgasm?
If she hasn’t had an orgasm or doesn’t have one frequently
(maybe she is pre-orgasmic), something with a LOT of power
might be most helpful like an electric massager (see pages 242-
245). Strong motors are great for helping women push past
where they normally stop themselves.
Q.   How much power does the person need?
Suggest something with a good continuous range that goes from
very low to very high, so she can CHOOSE how much vibration
is right for her. Every woman is different, and her sensitivity may
also change throughout the month.
Q.  Are there toys for men?
YES! Used solo or with a partner, vibrating c-rings and
“guybrators” can bring men even more pleasure and sometimes
even help in the case of erectile dysfunction. There are also
vibrating and non-vibrating prostate massagers.

Toy Materials
Materials matter. If it’s going on or into your body you should know what it’s made of. This guide explains the different
qualities of the most common toy materials. All toys can be cleaned with mild soap and water or a high-quality toy cleaner.

HARD PLASTIC, LUCITE AND ACRYLIC
There is a variety of hard plastics used to make sex toys and they
do not contain phthalates
Non-porous (it is recommended to use a condom if you plan to
share or use vaginally and anally)
Hard, shiny and transmits vibration very well
Usually safe for people concerned with sensitivity issues
Safe with any lubricant
100% SILICONE
Made from the highest specialty grade of polymers, and it is
medical-grade
Pliable, durable material that does not contain phthalates
It is non-porous and hypoallergenic
Retains heat for a more realistic feeling
Can be sterilized
Water-based lubricants only
A toy only has to be 10% silicone to say silicone on the label,
so be sure it is 100% silicone
GLASS
Non-porous and hypoallergenic
Great for temperature play
G-Spot or P-Spot stimulation
Can be sterilized
Safe with any lubricant
ELASTOMERS
Very porous phthalates-free and hypoallergenic (use a condom if
sharing or using vaginally and anally)
Soft and flexible like rubber toys and very durable
Elastomers are usually suitable for people concerned with allergic
reactions or chemical sensitivities

Water-based lubricants only

JELLY
Jelly toys are made of PVC (polyvinyl chloride), often contain
phthalates and usually have a plastic smell associated with them
Very porous (not safe to share or use vaginally and anally without
a condom)
Jelly toys are inexpensive, soft, and flexible
Water-based lubricants only
STAINLESS STEEL
Composed of steel and chromium and will not rust
Non-porous and phthalate-free
Can be sterilized
Great for temperature play and G-Spot or P-Spot stimulation
Safe with any lubricant
ORGANIC WOOD
Carved from exotic woods and basic woods
Waterproof, hypoallergenic, and phthalate-free
Splinter-free, super smooth finish
Suitable for people who experience reactions to other materials
or sensitivities to odors
Safe with any lubricant
NATURAL STONE
Usually polished semi-precious stone like quartz, marble,
and granite
Great for temperature play
Somewhat porous and phthalate-free (use a condom if sharing or
using vaginally and anally)
Safe with any lubricant
TPR AND TPE
Heat molded plastic that can resemble jelly, silicone or plastic
Porous (use a condom if sharing or using vaginally and anally)
Flexible, elastic and durable
Often phthalate-free, but not always
Safe with water-based lubricants only

WHAT ARE PHTHALATES?
Phthalates have been used for almost 100 years in every type of product imaginable. They are a group of chemicals added to hard
plastics to soften the material and make them more flexible. Used in a wide range of sex toys, phthalates offer an inexpensive way to give
toys a soft, cushy feel to them. However, some studies have shown phthalates to potentially cause health risks and, unfortunately, there is
not enough data to show exactly how harmful they can be because so few studies exist using sex toys. To be on safe side, avoid toys with
phthalates until further studies can be done. None of the products we carry contain phthalates.

THE TOY CHEST

These classic styles are must-haves for toybox.

                    VIBRATING BULLET (or “EGG”)
Great for men or women. Used anywhere OUTSIDE the body

RABBIT STYLE (or “DUO STYLE”)
For those who love penetration, clitoral stimulation
and sensation in the first one-third of the vagina.
G-SPOT TOY
Firm, curved toys are great for massaging the G-Spot
and P-Spot.
ANAL PLAY TOY
A good beginner anal toy with a tapered tip, defined
neck and wide base.
PENIS RING
Adjustable and textured penis rings are fun to play
with.
COUPLES VIBE
Wearable vibes for a man or woman to use together.
ELECTRIC & RECHARGEABLE WANDS
Discrete and super powerful.
LUBE
Using toys can absorb a lot of natural moisture. Choose
a good water-based lube that works with any toy
material.
CLEANERS
Keep toys clean, dust and bacteria-free. Clean them with
mild soap and water or a toy cleaner before and after
use.
BATTERIES
Don’t run out! Fresh batteries make a big difference
in toy performance.