Foreplay is a great starting point for intimacy. Quickies are ok. Foreplay can contain so much, they don’t have to start or be contained to the bedroom. Foreplay can trigger physiological and physical responses that makes it ever possible. It is a vital and important step to a wonderful sexual experience. In foreplay you can use so many different tools, body parts and avenues to accomplish that sexual gratifying feeling. Foreplay is like a warming up session to get you worked up and ready before penetration.

This is why I believe we all should find some way to truly get that fire going or blazing. Sexting, Leaving a note to be found, meeting for dinner or drinks are means to foreplay.

We can start by prolonging your foreplay, you not ever undressed yet, how you may ask?? Sexting is a quickie one way and most common low-pressure ways to get things done. I would suggest this way if your having trouble communicating your needs to your partner this is a great way behind the screen its easier to be bold and more assertive. Example of sexting I can’t wait to see you for you to be inside of me. Something this simple is all it takes to get the engines revved up and the ball rolling headed into the actual act. This will also help you learn what makes your partner work and to make them feel more desirable which will lead to self confidence and lead to better sex.

Dirty Talking

Kissing is something a lot of people underestimate its power. Kissing is intimate and passionate so very hot. Lips are so sensitive, rubbing your lower part and Undressing unknown to a lot of people can be another part of foreplay that works in any sexual occasion. To watch someone take off their clothes slow or fast in a sensual sensation and very hot letting you see their naked body. This can be a very vulnerable uncomfortable situation, but it is an electrifying moment. Undressing adds to the waiting and the growing anticipation of what’s to come next.

Massage and Worship happens when all the clothes are off, now you take your time and explore your partners body not jumping right into sex or oral sex. Lie your partner on their back giving them deep, firm squeezes and rubs. Give them a massage focusing on the specific erogenous zones that need attention. The areas for women are Ears, Lips, Neck, Breasts, Butt, Inner Thighs, Vagina, Collarbone, Back of Knees, Feet which makes them feel wanted.                                                                                                                                                                              Oral

Foreplay is particular important for women because it takes them a little loner to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm. Men can just think about sex and get an erection, but women wanting sex isn’t enough. Foreplay is made up of two sexual arousal physical and mental which is also part emotional. This helps prepare both the mind and the body for sex. Women need to be physically touched in everyway to create lubrication in the vagina which makes comfortable intercourse.

I don’t know if you know that foreplay starts with the brain which is the largest and most powerful sex organ. The other sex organ is the clitoris which is strictly for pleasure. Stimulation is the total key to achieving pleasure. You know that old saying a girls got needs and feelings, women need emotional assurance that the man she is having sex with really want to be with her. The time and attention given during foreplay can say that message in away that other words simply cannot. Mark sure you ask your partner to stimulate the erogenous zones that can be considered very pleasurable. The nipples, the anus, the back of the neck all have nerve endings. Don’t give up don’t self-sabotage your orgasm will come.