Do you ever wonder why during sex your mind starts thinking about everything you have to do, need to do or have already done? A lot of people are so distracted, stressed and over committed with the present, future instead of being in the now. Sex is a essential…
Welcome I’m Rachel your Sex Lies & Truth Sexologist. I am here today to talk about becoming a Magnetic Sex Goddess!!! This is not a hard thing we just have to remove the obstacles out of our own way. There are some women that don’t feel comfortable in their own…
It’s so surprising at how a lot of women have serious concerns that they can’t reach orgasms, but this is because most have no clue how their own anatomy really works or have even ever checked into their anatomy. If you don’t know your own body, how in the world…
Most people wonder what can they do or how to get great awesome liberating intimacy into their bedrooms? I’ve wondered and learned that you don’t have to undress to get intimacy started. I will always say that foreplay is sensual and great but don’t jump from kissing straight into foreplay…
True and Healthy relationships involve characteristics like honesty, loyalty, open communication, commitment, respect, trust, taking the effort and compromise from you both, respect one another’s privacy and space and one of my all time unconditional. When starting a relationship think about how to make your partner feel needed, desired…
Foreplay is a great starting point for intimacy. Quickies are ok. Foreplay can contain so much, they don’t have to start or be contained to the bedroom. Foreplay can trigger physiological and physical responses that makes it ever possible. It is a vital and important step to a wonderful sexual…
The G-spot, named after German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, is a pleasure point located inside the vagina within the pelvic urethra. Science is more dubious about its existence. But sexual pleasure is highly personal—to each her own—so it is worth knowing the basics.
Question: I heard there’s a place in a woman’s vagina called the cul-de-sac that’s even better than the G-spot. How do I find it?
Answer: Nobody goes to the G-spot anymore. It’s a total Clit and Rectal crowd. Everyone’s going to the Cul-de-Sac now. It’s actually called the Vaginal Fornix, but no one calls it that. It’s that place where the vagina dead-ends, sort of, like, behind the cervix. Like, if you were going to the cervix? But you kept going around the back? You can’t see it unless the uterus is raised, like, turned on.
It’s supposed to be hard to get in. Maybe for you. I mean, guys have to be at least average size. There’s a password: butterfly, like, the position where the girl has her legs all the way up, and then she has to suck in right as she’s coming. That’s what Barbara Keesling from Cal State Fullerton says. She wrote Super Sexual Orgasm: Discover the Ultimate Pleasure Spot: The Cul-de-Sac. She’s all, “It’s called light-socket sex… Seriously, you get the fireworks sensation of the lights behind your eyes. You get unusual sensations in your retina that we would call, like, fireworks. You get shooting colors. And it also makes you weak in the knees when you go to stand up afterward. And it also gives you a kind of uhhh, uhhh panting type of sensation.” And I was all, “No way,” and then she was like, “Penetration in the cul-de-sac goes to the spinal cord on a different nerve than the G-spot or the clitoris.”
But I talked to this doctor guy? Dr. Orlandis Wells OB-GYN? He was all, “Yes and no. Every woman’s sensitivity spot is different. The G-spot and the cul-de-sac are often painful for some women who enjoy the labia stimulation better.” And I was like, “Who said anything about the labia?”
I get keeping sex new and interesting, but how the hell do I spice up foreplay? I don’t know how you missed it, but sex and foreplay have been operating as one entity for a long time now—since at least the mid-1970s. You hardly ever see them apart outside of…
October is LGBT history month, and while there is increasing awareness about historical figures like Harvey Milk and Alan Turing, stories of great gay loves are still in short supply. California Schools To Start Teaching LGBT History In The Second Grade To help remind us that queer love has always…