Most people wonder what can they do or how to get great awesome liberating intimacy into their bedrooms? I’ve wondered and learned that you don’t have to undress to get intimacy started. I will always say that foreplay is sensual and great but don’t jump from kissing straight into foreplay you will definitely miss out on the entire erotic sensational steps of your sexual experience. The buildup of anticipation is always overlooked the suspense of not knowing what may come next is such a bomb shell. Knowing every time can sometime become very boring and routine.
The act of gently touching your partner’s body is to relax them and heighten the senses by stimulating the sexual senses without stimulating their body. Touch them by teasing them with your tongue to your hands and feet. When foreplay is in play your partner is so lit and on fire they will be yearning for more. Now your sexual experience will be mined blowing and explosive to say the least steamy and smoking hot.
If you’re into another aspect of intimacy I’m talking about ORAL, you might need to try to think again and with the right person or partner. If your partner is a man than your going to start with his body then work your way downward and began a rhythmic motion gentle suction then shake it up a little by changing from possibly sucking, teasing with your tongue, licking and changing the speed and intensity for handling him. Give your partner pointers about what you want, like and desire, share your innermost wishes and fantasies. Don’t be afraid to help your partner in any area. Also help them perfect their technique it will most definitely payoff for you in the end.
If your partner is a woman your going to start with her body from top and work your way downward. Now with her breast nibble, lick, kiss and bite them gently. Tease her with your tongue and your fingers caressing her. Lick her body as your making your way down to her treasures. Once at the vagina start nibbling, licking and sucking on the clitoris which is the only organ that is strictly for pleasure purposes only. Give your partner pointers about what you want, like and desire, share your innermost wishes and fantasies. Don’t be afraid to help your partner in any area. Also help them perfect their technique it will most definitely payoff for you in the end.
There are so many sensual spots or parts of the body other than your genitals, like the nape of the neck, back of the ears, the inner thighs, above the shoulders, the lower back, nipples, feet and stomach. Sexual satisfaction and gratification is always better when it includes the entire body also don’t forget your or your partners erogenous zones.
Okay let’s talk about another important piece SEX IS SLIPPING OR ITS WACK NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO, I NEED A NEW OR BETTER PARTNER!!!!!!! No that’s not what you need, get out your comfort zone. New or other sexual ways is truly the trick. When your sex life isn’t what it used to be, problems start to emerge that extends beyond your lack of sexual intimacy. In your relationship sometimes partners become routine over time and lose some excitement. Just because that happens, it doesn’t mean it’s time for a new partner, maybe no it’s time for new sex measures, I mean a lot of spicing, new positions, new locations, try toys and maybe a little role play will not hurt. Be willing to be open-mined and creative the possibilities are so so endless. Always relax and be in the now and the moment. Some women need to more like men, when they orgasm or ejaculate, they typically let their bodies take over their brains for a few minutes and just enjoy the moment. Remember orgasms and ejaculations are not the same things they are totally different.
Learning how to be vocal is a very needed key to a steamy bedroom. To ensure you’re getting satisfied say what it is you want or need. A nice gesture is also to ask what you can do to please your partner or make them sexually pleased. You can always talk in advance if you think it will ruin the mood. It is good to be able to talk about your desires, fantasies and whatever else you want to know about your partners sexual needs as well your own. The clearer the better, Take Control.
In any relationship never be negative always try to be as positive as possible. Don’t criticize its not attractive to your partner and it just might kill the mood. Things you could say like I love the way you touch me, I love when we go slowly it makes me want you even more or even the way you touch me in that way and then you use your tongue. We should always help our partner to become better not just for them but for you as well. Most people need help with pleasure and orgasms this is why you have to take a more active role in creating a sensual pleasure of your own during intercourse. Your partner once again can’t read your mind and will not know every aspect of your desires, fantasies and pleasures. Hopefully your partner will have the sexual skills and empathy to know how to please you. They should be very attentive to your needs and you to theirs. But its can only come together if you participate to help with your own orgasm. Which is the responsibility of your lover as well as yourself.
To reach to that heighten level make sure you research sexual positions or anything pertaining to sexual gratification that you are seeking after that will allow you access to your most sensitive parts or spots and make it very clear about what feels sensual and turns you on and up also what turns you off. Try something different if it doesn’t work try something else until you find some that do work for you and your partner. When you need to you can always incorporate vibrators, lubes and toys to spice up your intimacy and sex life your bedroom and partner will be please. Never make it a dull moment always keep that fire lit and going strong. Always try different things no logs or l1mps. lol